reflect the effort given to you & you won’t be left disappointed
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in love with beauty & fashion
// talk to me“A love like that was a serious illness, an illness from which you never entirely recover.”— Charles Bukowski, The People Look Like Flowers at Last (via coral)
In order to make a relationship last, you really have to flow with a person as they change. Give them space. My friend always told me about his grandfather who was with his wife for 60 years before she passed. His grandfather said that through all that time, his wife changed so much it felt like he had been with 8 different people by the end. But he said the secret to making it last was that through all those changes, he never suffocated his wife with his own idea of who he expected her to be. Rather he loved, fully, every new woman she became.
(via avenue)